tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post5306639732203262856..comments2024-01-26T13:52:15.408-05:00Comments on Life After I "Dew": 31 Days: Day 12Shannon Dewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06532112640843820431noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-69471887524605402222012-10-14T23:39:11.239-04:002012-10-14T23:39:11.239-04:00Ugh, why do people spend time digging at others an...Ugh, why do people spend time digging at others and leaving hateful, spiteful comments? Good for you for addressing this coward directly. And yay for you having some extra moolah to spend on yourself. You deserve it, mama![dianegatorfan]https://www.blogger.com/profile/17300543590727130260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-15436277758435202832012-10-14T08:59:13.766-04:002012-10-14T08:59:13.766-04:00It sucks but people judge those who blog. Your lif...It sucks but people judge those who blog. Your life is on display. The part they DONT REMEMBER is that we don't display ALL Parts all the time and we have boundaries. And so it's not anyones business where the extra money came from. And nor is it necessary for bloggers to explain those little bits if WE DONT WANT TO. So irritating. I feel you. So much.Katie @ Loves of Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07841348340467277988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-44959700609829814952012-10-13T10:52:36.813-04:002012-10-13T10:52:36.813-04:00Well said :) x Well said :) x Our Home Grown Adventureshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15711031466207184527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-58111239129379291302012-10-13T09:35:37.169-04:002012-10-13T09:35:37.169-04:00I completely agree! Thank you for sharing. You hi...I completely agree! Thank you for sharing. You hit the nail on the head, dead on. I shared your post with my husband and he couldn't agree more. We all know our limits and sharing respect within our marriage and relationships. Thank you!karyjunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17429750770062539214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-39787894645184388372012-10-13T06:09:52.705-04:002012-10-13T06:09:52.705-04:00Well, now I'm interested. What kind of purse?!...Well, now I'm interested. What kind of purse?! People are such assholes sometimes, it's crazy how they just don't have a filter....like really? And then to comment with a no reply email. Oh, that's nice!!! Ugh, people! I swear!! Have a great weekend!Crystal Seedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14708250531613995222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-49766197429277304342012-10-12T22:39:44.207-04:002012-10-12T22:39:44.207-04:00I wouldn't let one person's comment bother...I wouldn't let one person's comment bother you so much! You have so much more to be proud of to let that one person get to you! Let it roll off and move on :) You were just being a respectful wife.mcm1017https://www.blogger.com/profile/10782960532653788671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-8331321147024326942012-10-12T22:22:39.686-04:002012-10-12T22:22:39.686-04:00I don't ask permission or notify B about stuff...I don't ask permission or notify B about stuff like that, but I could care less if other people do. As for the comment, the rude ones never leave their real e-mail! Maybe you'll be on GOMI one day! That's my goal!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-88536375872529898802012-10-12T19:35:17.410-04:002012-10-12T19:35:17.410-04:00Girl it's respectful of you to ask him. Don...Girl it's respectful of you to ask him. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for that. I don't ask my husband for the little things but that kind of money, hell yea I'm asking. It's not just my money. It's OURS. Haters be stupid. You're respectful. Don't ever let anyone make you feel bad for that.Perfectly Imperfecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16128584550959614381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-29769566195768344602012-10-12T18:38:06.717-04:002012-10-12T18:38:06.717-04:00I agree with all that you wrote. I also 'ask&#...I agree with all that you wrote. I also 'ask' my husband to buy things that aren't a necessity. I do this because like your husband he works hard for that money. It's his paycheck. Sure it is ours to pay the bills and buy us necessities. I should 'ask' for the 'extras' until I earn my own pocket money.. He doesn't get upset if I come home with a shirt for Mackenzie or something extra not on our grocery list. But I feel it's a respect thing, like you, to 'ask' before spending money on craft supplies or new clothes for me. <br />And yes, people need to stop leaving anonamous comments! I hate that! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-49374250304342088392012-10-12T18:25:25.081-04:002012-10-12T18:25:25.081-04:00I ask my husband about just about everything I buy...I ask my husband about just about everything I buy too. Not because I think there's a chance he'll say no but because it's respectful. Haters gonna hate.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16377594606599796121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-12758433463535826702012-10-12T18:11:04.984-04:002012-10-12T18:11:04.984-04:00I totally agree with you. I too as "permissio...I totally agree with you. I too as "permission" to make plans for us and to buy 'lavish' things. I have actually dropped 'friends' that have questioned my relationship and how i ask these questions. I too do it out of respect and love and think of us as a unit. I can't go making plans for him without consulting him or spending large amounts of money either. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-71815994303896831852012-10-12T17:35:10.759-04:002012-10-12T17:35:10.759-04:00Couldn't have said it better myself. It's ...Couldn't have said it better myself. It's all about respect, not dominance.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00008345691169783645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-27636381988336307522012-10-12T17:24:43.082-04:002012-10-12T17:24:43.082-04:00Yikes. Rude. Whether she was implying that you w...Yikes. Rude. Whether she was implying that you were a "kept woman," or that she thought you SHOULD be a "kept woman," that's just plain unnecessary.Karahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05748172624599460247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-1837331596679154392012-10-12T16:30:52.196-04:002012-10-12T16:30:52.196-04:00I agree that it was rude but just to play devil...I agree that it was rude but just to play devil's advocate you have posted A LOT about not having money and even about the UPS man coming late and (with a silly tone) hoping Jimmy didn't see your online purchases. I think the person was rude but honestly writing a fired up post like this probably gave them exactly what they were looking for! Love your blog Shannon and that you keep it all real so I'm just putting that out there - don't hate me! (The bag was super adorbs by the way.)AWDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01008297764289151849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-68369101833240386232012-10-12T16:04:16.494-04:002012-10-12T16:04:16.494-04:00I wonder if the person who posted that question ha...I wonder if the person who posted that question has the ballz to post an apology .. Christine AKA Girl Versus Kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06233656527131177055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-13210196536808154632012-10-12T16:01:03.874-04:002012-10-12T16:01:03.874-04:00I work from home and make way less money than my h...I work from home and make way less money than my husband. I often ask him before I purchase something... he always says "yes", but I too do it out of respect, not because I have to ask him or because I have no access to the money.<br /><br />Perhaps this anonymous commenter should remember "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all". Melissa @ A Dozen Years Laterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01765350904607715883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-69732216451921888872012-10-12T15:58:11.481-04:002012-10-12T15:58:11.481-04:00There's always one.
My Husband I and discus...There's always one. <br /><br />My Husband I and discuss almost all of our expenses. It's normal. It's called communication and a healthy marriage.<br /><br />Sounds like a someone's a little jealous.<br /><br />You don't need to justify yourself to him/her. It's easy to hate behind the walls of the internet.Melissa at Tall Blonde Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16558729735720813077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-88478750118152782992012-10-12T15:37:41.322-04:002012-10-12T15:37:41.322-04:00I can't believe someone would voice something ...I can't believe someone would voice something so tacky. I think that is beyond rude, just because you can be anonymous and leave hateful comments doesn't mean you should. <br /><br />My husband and I also tell each other/run by each other when you are going to make a purchase. It's just a respect thing, imo. Don't worry about that hateful person you are so much better than that. You and Jimmy are the only people that need to worry about you purchasing a $130 purse. ;) Lacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13364785515565587711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-80047676259086243532012-10-12T15:29:13.078-04:002012-10-12T15:29:13.078-04:00takes all kinds... sounds like classic jealousy to...takes all kinds... sounds like classic jealousy to me!<br />pffffft @ the haters!<br />xxoo!<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06556104931632660784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-63135689054443171012012-10-12T15:29:08.461-04:002012-10-12T15:29:08.461-04:00I friggin love you. josh and I also ask each other...I friggin love you. josh and I also ask each other before we buy.juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03524448344184656963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-56503298357690540372012-10-12T15:25:13.817-04:002012-10-12T15:25:13.817-04:00Well said as always! Well said as always! Meaganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01166675839896294650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-65940007622330151812012-10-12T15:25:05.740-04:002012-10-12T15:25:05.740-04:00Well said! My husband and I always "ask"...Well said! My husband and I always "ask" each oher if we can buy something. Totally just out of respect. Enjoy your purse!Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01646654805808794886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5645105390063604360.post-18062582532623834642012-10-12T15:24:51.544-04:002012-10-12T15:24:51.544-04:00How rude. I do the same thing. I ask before I buy...How rude. I do the same thing. I ask before I buy even though Tim wouldn't care. That was rude and rule #1 of blogging is if you don't have anything to say don't say it at all! I hope your Friday gets better.Christihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10999106737073433978noreply@blogger.com