November 30, 2012

At 9 a.m.

Is it just me or does 9 a.m. feel so much different in the winter?

Over the summer we were outside and filling up the water table and the baby pool by nine, some days.  By nine I was ready to go to the pool, sunscreen applied and pool bag packed only to find out the pool doesn't even open till 10!  At 9 a.m. I felt as if half of the day was already over.  Making it to story time {at 10 a.m.}each week was a breeze.

Now?  Well I'm lucky to have breakfast ready by nine. Showers usually don't happen until the afternoon because omgidon'twanttogetoutofmywarmbedandgetintheshower!  There is definitely no going outside to play bright and early.  And some weeks I just don't feel like going to story time.


It could also be that my child sleeps in much later now too.  

And that it's too freakin' cold to do anything outside because 1. I hate wearing coats and 2. I hate the cold.

There's just something about the winter months that make everyone and everything seem to slow down.  It's really quite refreshing after the busyness that is summer cookouts, pool parties, graduations, weddings, pool days, and more cookouts.  I almost welcomed the calm that comes with the cooler months this year.

Instead of planning the days activities, determined to make the most of a bright! sunny! warm! day, we snuggle up on the couch in front of a warm fire.  We drink hot chocolate before we eat breakfast and it's OK.  We have more PJ days and KP loves PJ day {girlfriend hates to get dressed unless it's to put on a princess dress or tutu}.

9 a.m. seems easier these days.  If we don't feel like leaving the house for the day {or two or three} we don't and there's no guilt because we are missing out on great weather.  No, instead it's cozy and comfy and warm and makes me feel all of those things on the inside too.

I've always been a self proclaimed "I hate winter-er" but this year I'm finding a new respect for it.  Perhaps it's because I'm older and lazier but I like to think it's because I can appreciate the calm now.  I appreciate those rare moments when The Toddler is all quiet and relaxed and snuggly and I don't dare interrupt that.

I know in a few months when there is snow on the ground and we can't go anywhere due to slushy roads I'll be back to my same old "I hate winter!" mantra.  So for now, I'm enjoying the cold mornings and the fact that 9 a.m. is so simple and sweet and snuggly and warm and quiet and easy.

Happy Friday, friends.  Have a great weekend.


November 29, 2012

The Good Stuff

So I know I talk about The Terrible Twos often.  So often that you guys are probably like, "OMG that Kendall sounds like Problem Child" and would definitely turn me down if I asked you to babysit.  It hurts my heart to think that I have painted KP in this terrible light  I mean SURE we have our moments, what toddler doesn't?  But really, in all honesty, my child is such a delight.
Her favorite thing right now, favorite, is princesses.  She loves them all, Cinderella, Ariel, Belle, even ones that she hasn't seen like Snow White, Sleeping Beauty & Princess Tiana. LOVES them and she loves pretending she is one.  She has even gotten to the point where she puts on her "halloween dress" aka a generic, pink, princess dress and wears it over her clothes, even in public.  It's fine, it's one of those fights I'm not willing to fight and the attention she gets is adorable, "OH you have a princess with you!!!".  She eats it up. I swore no character clothes would ever grace her body but the way she lights up when she wears her "Ci-er-ellie" shirt or her "Sleepy Booty" nightgown, I cannot resist.  It's too much.

Too bad she doesn't act like a princess all the time.  Girlfriend is wild.  She loves to "jump jump jump", climb on everything, do flips, "spin round", basically she is a monkey.  She loves dancing, and she's got a mean wiggle.  I mean it's like her hips aren't even attached to her body.  I love it.  She also loves singing and that might be my favorite thing about this stage.  She remembers words to songs after hearing them once, it's amazing.  Some of her favorites are "The Barney Song" {I love you , you love me}, "Chocolate Song" {from Choo Choo Soul} and "We Can Do It" {from Cinderella}. 
She's still in a crib but we're starting to entertain the idea of a toddler bed.  We talk about it some times but she just LOVES her crib and sleeps so well in it, I'm afraid to ruin that. She'll be getting her big girl bedding for Christmas {shh...she doesn't know} and so we'll address it more after that.  Right now she wakes up around 8-9 {thanks to the aluminum foil on the windows} and usually takes a 2 1/2-3 hour nap a day.  I cannot complain about the sleep department, ever.

I think one of my favorite things that she does right now is that she calls the grocery store a supermarket.  Around here it's just "going to the grocery store" or "going to Kroger" we never use the word supermarket, like, ever. But Kendall does and I just love it!  I wish I could take credit but Bubble Guppies is responsible, 100%.  She also loves to say, "let my {me} see it" in regards to anything.  Reading a book?  "Let my see it!".  Eating food?  "Let my see it!". It's cute and annoying all at the same time.  

Her absolute favorite thing to play with right now is puzzles.  Like, real puzzles.  It's amazing to watch, really. A few weeks ago I was out with my mother-in-law and wanted to buy some puzzles because she has a giant Dora puzzle {only 5 pieces} and she could do it like a pro.  I thought it might be fun to challenge her with a more complicated 24 piece puzzle...yeah right.  She can literally put them together with little to no guidance.  I mean she's just so dang smart.  

I think it's safe to say that she lives on fruit snacks at this point.  I know it's not the healthiest option but at least it's not candy.  She loves them and is constantly running to the pantry, "I need more fruit snacks!".  We're also working on manners right now.  She's getting better about the "I need" and replacing it with "may I please have..." but it's a work in progress. 

 She's definitely started being more affectionate lately and will randomly come up, hug my leg and say, "I lub {love} you soooo much mommy" and then I melt into a puddle on the floor.  Just last night we were sitting at the table and she was saying "mom, mom, mom" and when I corrected her that she's supposed to say "excuse me" when she wants my attention, she quickly grabbed my hand, held it, then proceeded to put her head down on it and said "I lub you mama".  I mean talk about heart exploding.  

Potty training is nowhere in sight, as of right now. She's starting to recognize when things are happening, she's running to hide when she does #2 and she's starting to hate diaper changes.  So maybe it'll happen soon?  Either way I'm not pushing it, she'll let me know when she's ready.

This kid says and does the darndest things!  The other morning she was eating her cereal and I look over and she's going, "mommy, I eat like a doggy" and she's lapping the milk from her bowl.  She has a "signature move" where she gets down like she's in the downward facing dog position and then she puts one leg in the air and says "gymnastics!!!!!" and is so proud.  If you ask her how old anyone is, everyone is two, like her.  Her best friend is Smith, always.  She skips 5 when she's counting, all of the sudden, out of nowhere.  She loves the reaction she gets when she sneezes or coughs so if she does it once she fakes it 5 more times to hear, "bless you" one more time.  A couple of weeks ago she completely surprised me when she just started reciting her bedtime prayers in the middle of the day, out of nowhere.  That was a very proud moment.

She still has some OCD tendencies.  When I lay her down at night and cover her up her blanket has to be facing pattern side up or else she cries and tells me it's backwards.  When we swing on the swingset we have to be facing west, always.  If something is normally in a certain place and then for some reason or another it moves she freaks and puts it back.  She thinks that certain pens and pad of paper are mine or Jimmy's and if one of us uses one that she thinks belongs to the other person she FREAKS out and makes us give it back.  I'm working on teaching her that we can use whichever because we share but for now she thinks any pink pen is mine.  I'm hoping these carry into her teen years and she winds up being very organized, smart and tidy.

I swear each day is an adventure with this little lady and she makes me laugh and appreciate life in a whole new way.  Although we may have our bad days our good days always outweigh them.

November 28, 2012

SO WHAT! Wednesday

So What Wednesday
This week I'm saying SO WHAT if...

  • I was so excited to get the Christmas decorations out just so I could start Elf on the Shelf shenanigans.
  • I absolutely LOVE it when Kendall asks me to blow dry her hair after bath.
  • I pretty much let KP dictate what she wants for breakfast, lunch & dinner.  At least I know she'll eat everything I give her that way.
  • I really cannot think of anything I want for Christmas past 4 or 5 items.
  • I get a ridiculously tad bit excited when someone retweets, favorites, or shares something I've posted on Twitter and/or Facebook.
  • I tried to get KP to name her Elf on the Shelf something super cute and creative but alas we ended up with Rich.  No idea.
  • I think going ombre was the best thing I ever did for my hair.
  • Seeing Kendall's reaction to all this Christmas stuff makes it all worth it.  As if I didn't already love this time of year.
  • I hate cleaning out my refrigerator and only do it when absolutely necessary, like if there is a science experiment growing.
  • I buy Kendall's Christmas gifts while she's with me.
  • I'm jealous of girls that can eat whatever they want and never gain an ounce.



November 27, 2012

Don't Be Scared!

Are you Team Leggings as Pants?  If you follow me on Instagram you know I am a firm believer, hell I could probably be The President.  I honestly couldn't tell you the last time I wore jeans, yes I can it was Wednesday of last week.  Yeah.

So many of you have said, "It looks cute BUT I could never do it" or "I'm too scared to do this".  I get it, it's a tricky look, especially if you have a little junk in the trunk {like me}.  I was scared to do it the first time too because OMGDOESEVERYOUNCEOFCELLULITESHOW? And can you see my underwear?

Well I am here to tell you I have found the perfect Leggings as Pants shirt!  It's soft, it's super comfortable, AND it comes a good 2-3" below the booty!  Even better is it's only $22 so you can get one in every color.


But The Anything Goes Tunic isn't just a top to be worn with leggings.  In the middle pic I have it on with a pair of jeans and flats for a casual tee shirt look.  So versatile, I love it.  For reference I'm wearing a medium but I'm pretty sure I could use a small too, just depends on what look you are going for.

I'm sure most of you have heard about Kiki La'Rue on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.  They are known for their outstanding customer service, cute clothes at great prices and Becka is ALWAYS doing fabulous giveaways for her followers. Did I mention you might get a free coozie with your order?  Yeah, so that's awesome!

If you want to get in on some of these great deals follow them on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest.  I promise you'll be happy you did.

Now, let's all get on Team Leggings as Pants!


AND, NOW, AN ANNOUNCEMENT!!!

{No, I'm not pregnant.}

Me and a few of my favorite blog ladies {and maybe some of yours too!}are hosting holiday blog hop this year and I hope that you'll check us out throughout the month of December!
Every Monday and Wednesday in December each one of us will showcase a different holiday theme.

AND I may or may not have a super special giveaway courtesy of Kiki La'Rue during my portion of the link up on the 17th !  AND there may or may not be more than one winner.  AND there may or may not be a HUGE giveaway among all six of us at the close of this "party" {MayBooks!  Shutterfly! Infantino! And more!}.

I'm so excited to work with these lovely ladies and bring you some exciting holiday posts to get you in the holiday spirit!  Be sure to stick around, I promise, you won't want to miss this!




November 26, 2012

Hey, That's Pin-tastic: Ornament Wreath

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...all over Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, you name it, social media is full of people decorating trees, putting up lights, and even baking Christmas goodies.  Out with the turkey and in with the jolly, fat, guy in a red suit!  Actually I'm fairly certain some people hadn't even given thanks before they were playing Christmas songs on their car radios.

Last year I had pinned this tutorial with every intention of making an ornament wreath for our front door. Well last year came and went and the wreath I had for years did the trick and therefore it never got made.  Plus I never got off my booty to take advantage of the after Christmas ornament sales and Lord knows I'm not paying full price to make a wreath.

Flash forward, my grandma cleaned out all of her holiday decorations a couple of months ago leaving me the sole owner of 13 Rubbermaid tubs FULL of snowmen, garland, ornaments, plates, platters, candles, you name it.  I told Jimmy a week ago that I wanted to make this wreath but completely wasn't looking forward to going out in the madness that is holiday shopping and then DUH I remembered all those boxes and was determined to work with what I had.

Well grandma did not disappoint.  I almost had plenty of ornaments to make my vision come to life. Here's the deal, Jimmy is very traditional when it comes to Christmas decorations.  He likes red, green, silver and gold and that's about it. So I have to keep that in mind whenever I'm feeling festive.  While I was able to keep this wreath mostly husband approved, I did have to mix in a few blue bulbs to make it work.

I need to get some ribbon to cover the hook of the coat hanger but overall I'm impressed with the way it turned out.  Thankfully you can't see the "hook" from the road so, let's be honest, I will most likely never get around to covering it up.  I had to get creative when it came to making it full enough because I was getting close to running out of ornaments.  I ended up going back through it and putting some "odd" shaped and non-solid colored bulbs in and topping it off with a pretty decorative one with some spiral "tendrils" for added fun.  When I was finished  you couldn't even tell that I had to improvise.

As soon as I was finished I sent a picture of it to Jimmy and...HUSBAND APPROVED!  He loved it!  He may have even suggested I sell them...I may have asked him to go take his temperature {and not orally} to make sure he wasn't coming down with something.


This thing was no joke to make.  I may or may not have contemplating a glass of wine {at 10 am} while making it.  Bending the hanger into a circle was enough to make me give up before even getting started.  Oh and when the tutorial suggest hot gluing the little ornament cap onto the ornament, DO IT.  Don't think, "eh, but I don't have a hot glue gun, it'll be fine".  Get off your butt and head to the local Dollar General and buy a cheap hot glue gun.  You will save yourself LOTS of frustration and day time drinking.  And don't under estimate on the number of ornaments you'll need.  The more the merrier and you can always use any extra {I doubt you'll have extra} on your tree or in a pretty vase for a centerpiece.


November 23, 2012

FAB Friday

Today I'm linking up with my good friend and favorite Voxing friend, Laura, for some FAB Fridays!

Today is Black Friday which is FABulous for you crazies, not for this mama.  Kendall and I will be sitting in our PJs and enjoying some online deals.

Speaking of, that brings me to my first FAB...


  • EBATES.  You all know how much I love online shopping AND Ebates already but, in case you needed further convincing, a lot of stores have double {some even tripled} the amount of cash back you get for this weekend {for example, Old Navy is usually 2% and this weekend it's 10%}.  I just placed an order and earned 8% cash back plus used an Ebates member exclusive coupon code for 20% off my entire order!  Hello savings!  I mean if you are going to online shop you may as well get paid to do so, right?  
My second FAB comes from my favorite smell good company, Scentsy.
  • Silver Bells Scentsy Bar.  I have been a fan of Scentsy since I got my first warmer and bar but this scent made me fall in love all over again!  It's one of their holiday scents but it doesn't scream Christmas {like peppermint or fern may}.  I smelled it when I first got it and knew I'd love it but I warmed it for the first time on Wednesday and it was even better!  I highly recommend it.  BTW Laura is having a great deal for Black Friday so email her for details!
My third {and last} FAB is a product I got YEARS ago and kind of forgot about until this week.  
  • TRESemme Curl Activator Spray.  You spray it on your dry hair, blast it with the hair dryer for about 30 seconds and then curl.  It's THE best.  I don't have to use any other products with this {minus some hairspray on my bangs} and my curls last all day!  Best part is it's CHEAP, like really cheap.  
Now head on over and visit Laura and link up with some things you are finding FAB this week!

November 21, 2012

SO WHAT! Wednesday


So What WednesdayThis week I'm saying SO WHAT if...

  • I let Kendall go out to the store in her princess/Halloween dress yesterday.  Some days it's just not worth fighting over.
  • I picked the two things that are the easiest to make for my Thanksgiving contributions.  Done and done!
  • I'm so glad Sister Wives is back on!  That is a guilty {or not so much} pleasure that I will never tire of.  It's just so fascinating to me!
  • I think it's the cutest thing in the world when my kid wants to do "cheers" with her cup.
  • I thought about skipping SWW today and blaming it on Thanksgiving.
  • I try to get Kendall to drink water even though I'm lucky to get one glass down my own gullet.  
  • The only thing we use Netflix for is TV shows.
  • We've decided on a girl name IF Baby Dew #2 is a girl.
  • I love all the blog giveaways going on right now.  I'm hoping to win some, hello Christmas gifts!
  • Kendall doesn't have a baby book.  I have this blog.
  • I kinda love it when Chanel sleeps right behind my legs at night.  It's more like a love/hate relationship. 
  • We've been talking about moving Kendall to a big girl bed this week.  I'm excited and scared all at the same time. Maybe more scared though.
  • I like to think I'm responsible for this sudden "box wine craze" that seems to be going on right now. 
  • I've enjoyed taking this month off of TTC.




November 20, 2012

It's Not You, It's Me

Hey, remember me?  Yeah I used to blog here, my name is Shannon.

Sorry for the blog week{ish} of silence but it was necessary for my soul.  Would you believe that since posting about having a meltdown over my two-year-old and my mothering capabilities life has flip turned upside down {bonus points if you know what that's from} and for the better?
Funny how that works.

But seriously ever since I wrote that post {and had the meltdown} things have seemed so much better in ToddlerLand. Maybe it took for me to completely admit defeat at the mercy of my adorable toddler or maybe it made me realize what really needed to be done.  

I'd love to think that Kendall could sense that mama was on the brink of a breakdown and was one box of wine away from being checked into Betty Ford but I think what really happened was some self discovery.  I realized that I am the problem in this Terrible Two situation.  

I noticed that the times when I was getting the most frustrated and she was getting in "trouble" were the times that I was trying to do something for ME {blog, clean, cook, talk to my mom, etc} and Kendall wanted me to focus on HER.  But, she is two, she needs my attention and she needs me to put those other things to the back burner.  Plain and simple.  

So that's what I've been doing.  Hence the lack of actual content around these parts.  I realized that I wasn't focusing on her like I needed to be.  I expected her to engage in independent play for longer than a 2-year-old is capable.  I thought she should know that I'm "busy" and to "give me one more minute".  And then I realized what a shitty mom I was being.  She didn't deserve that.  

She deserves a mom who is engaged.  She needs to know that I am here physically and mentally.  I want her to grow up knowing that she can count on me for anything and the way I was behaving wasn't sending her that message.  The message she was getting was that "mommy's busy" and that she needs to take a back seat to what?  Instagram?  Facebook?  Blogging?  Pathetic.

I'm pretty sure I've talked before about how social media can be so awesomely awesome but a total time suck at the same time.  It's true.  I've struggled with finding a happy-medium for as long as I've been doing this gig.  It's a fine line between being a good blogger and a great mom.  But when I'm telling my child "just one more email" {which I know turns into five} that's not OK.

And what am I teaching her?  To not use her imagination?  That being on the computer is more important than putting a puzzle together with her?  That having a clean house that is always "company ready" {even though we rarely have company} is the only way to live?  Poppycock!

For me it took a complete meltdown {on my part} and a little bit of venting to realize that I'm the one that needs an attitude adjustment.  I'm the one that needs to make changes.

This past week I've been focusing more on Kendall and less on the little things.  When I'm on the phone with my mom, mother-in-law, BFF and Kendall is on the verge of a breakdown I simply hang up and handle her. When she is literally climbing up my leg while I answer an email I simply hit "save as draft" and come back to it during nap.  Seems easy, yes.  It has worked wonders.  It's amazing how just playing with her for 30 minutes and giving her my undivided attention can change her entire mood around.  And when I do give her 100% of me she gives me a few minutes of independent play {to cook dinner, wash the dishes or put my makeup on}.

I didn't need a book, DVD or Dr. Phil to tell me what I needed to be doing differently.  My child has been saying it {with her behavior} this whole time, I just wasn't listening.

I wanted to chalk it up to being a case of The Terrible Twos but in reality it was a case of the Mediocre Mommy.  That's not to say that this week hasn't had it's moments of frustration or completely unnecessary tantrums {on her part this time} but they have been better, easier to manage, and far less frequent.  I'd like to actually take responsibility for this.

I feel like I have painted my child in this terrible, OMG what a terror light when in reality she's the smartest, funniest, most strong willed {that's a good thing}, little girl I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.  She makes me laugh and challenges me each and every day and for that I am thankful.  I only hope that I can show her that from here on out.


November 15, 2012

The Boutique Mommy

It's no secret that I love me some monogrammed clothing for the holidays for Miss KP.  I think she's had one for the past 3 years for Thanksgiving and Christmas and her past two birthdays.  I can't afford for her to run around in it every day {I wish!} but I can splurge for holidays.

In the past she's donned a turkey and a pumpkin for past Thanksgivings but this years tee is my favorite.  It's from Jackie at The Boutique Mommy and it's so appropriate for the stage she's in right now.  Whenever she sees it she says, "Hey dats my turkey tee!  Dats letter K, like Ken-all!".  So smart, this girl.

Precious, right?

Jackie's work is impeccable.  Her aunt had recommended her shop to me via this blog a few months ago when I got Kendall's birthday tee and I couldn't wait til the next holiday showed up so I could get my hands on one of her adorable creations.  Jackie was so great to work with, I sent her an idea of what I had in mind and she created it to a "T".  

Her birthday stuff is just too cute too, well everything she does is cute.  Take a look on her Facebook page for even more adorable items.

And Jackie has a new program starting in 2013, a shirt of the month club!  I mean, why didn't I think of that?  Here are the details.

How cool does that sound?  I mean 12 shirts for $180?  That's just $15 a tee, and THAT'S a great deal.  BUT the deal just got a little bit sweeter because Life After I "Dew" readers get a 5% discount on all paid in full purchases made by the end of November!  If you want to get in on this amazing deal all you have to do is email Jackie at boutiquemommy@gmail.com and use code 'earlybird'.  It's that simple!  

I don't know about you but I totally plan on taking advantage of this and then Kendall can sport a monogrammed tee every month, not just for holidays!  YAY!  A monogram lovers dream come true, I tell you!

November 14, 2012

SO WHAT! Wednesday

This week I'm saying SO WHAT if...
So What Wednesday

  • I wore the same outfit Monday & Tuesday.
  • Said outfit consisted of husbands sweats, a tank and hoodie with my hair in a {husband disapproved} bun.
  • Aforementioned hoodie had a chili stain on it.
  • There are still beer bottles/cans on the deck from Jimmy's party this weekend.  Outside of the house stuff is not my responsibility.  Thank God we live in the country.
  • I spent my Big Fat Check from Ebates the same day I got it!  Holler for {basically} free stuff!
  • I have to write out all the things I want to get accomplished each day.  If I keep track of it all in my head it seems overwhelming but when I jot it all down it seems totally manageable.
  • I've been driving around with broken computers in my trunk for weeks.  I keep meaning to drop them off at the computer recycling place but never remember to.
  • I want to start Christmas shopping but the thought of it makes me have a mild panic attack.
  • I've never seen Billy Madison.
  • I'm on the second disc of season one of Friday Night Lights and I'm just not loving it like everyone told me I would.  In fact, I'm downright bored.  Does it get better?
  • I'm typing this instead of picking up the mound of toys that surround me.
  • I am so excited that Teen Mom 2 and RHBH started again.  
  • I'm also very thankful for the Internet for providing me with said shows since we kicked cable to the curb.
  • I prefer beer to wine these days.
  • My husband is making a roast right now and I most likely won't even taste it.
p.s. don't forget my Noonday giveaway ends tomorrow. If you haven't entered yet, go here.



November 12, 2012

Monday + A Meltdown

This weekend I had a meltdown. Not my first and surely not my last, especially where The Terrible Twos are concerned.  But one for the record books, that's for sure.

I posted this picture to Instagram, an hour before Jimmy's party was to start, and not 30 minutes later I was in the master bath, sobbing, big fat ugly crying my eyes out.

I had reached my breaking point.

It's not very often that I feel that frustrated.  I don't know when the last time I cried was.  I used to be a crier, I'd cry over any little thing, and they said that when you become a mom that multiplies.  Not in my case. I feel like I cry less now, except when it comes to weddings, babies being born, you know, mom things.  But Saturday?  I cried.  And I cried hard.

Not only did I cry but I vented.  My poor husband.  I told him I didn't like our child {in the moment}, that I didn't want to be around her.  I told him that this is the reason we haven't gotten pregnant yet.  God knows I cannot handle it, not right now. I am feeling the effects of being a stay-at-home-mom and being the on that has to teach, discipline, love, play, feed, clothe, bathe most days.  It's hard and exhausting and not for the faint of heart, that's for sure.

I cried because I'm frustrated. I feel like my child is the only defiant two-year-old out there.  I know that's not the case but hot damn I read so many posts where their toddler is sweet, kind, gentle, polite, listens, behaves and I feel like Kendall does the exact opposite of all of that.  She doesn't listen, doesn't respond to authority {she laughs when I yell and puts herself in time-out}, throws a fit when she doesn't get her way and the only answer that anyone has is, "it's called The Terrible Twos for a reason".

Well, I am here to tell you that I do not accept that.  I refuse to chalk bad behavior up to a stage, that's ridiculous.  I need answers.  I need help.  I need something to work.

Thankfully relief came in the form of my mother-in-law that night.  She was here for Jimmy's party and offered to take Kendall off my hands for the night.  As much as I wanted to scream "YES! YES!  PLEASE PLEASE!!!" I felt guilty at the same time.  I ended up letting her take her and it was the best decision I could have made.  I needed it.  We both needed it.

When we picked Kendall up Sunday afternoon I still felt like it wasn't enough time.  I wasn't ready to be her mom again.  I didn't miss her and I didn't want to deal with the tantrum that was to come when it was time to load her up into the car.  Thankfully she was exhausted when we got there so leaving wasn't really an issue {yay!!} and we headed straight for my parents from there so she took a nap making for a quiet and enjoyable drive.  Jimmy and I even got to listen to what we wanted on the radio!

My entire family was anxiously waiting for us so as soon as we got there it was all hands on Kendall.  She ate it up.  She got 100% attention from not one, not two, but 5 people other than myself.  I barely lifted a finger.  So while it wasn't a "break" because I was still there it was enough of a break that I can say today I feel better.

I have never had a "job" that left me feeling so emotional.  I have never "worked" so hard in my entire life as I have these past two years.  I've never experienced the highest of highs and the lowest of lows as I have since becoming a mother.

I'm not sure if/when Baby Dew #2 is going to enter our world but I think it's safe to say God is waiting.  He knows that I have a lot to learn, still, and I'm not ready.  I am a work in progress and eventually {hopefully} I'll figure this mothering thing out.  Until then there's always wine, right?

November 9, 2012

Noonday Review + Giveaway

Noonday is a company that sells Fair Trade jewelry for women in impoverished countries. The jewelry is beautiful and the stories behind the jewelry is even more beautiful!

I had never heard from Noonday until Melissa contacted me and when she did I was sold.  The company has an amazing heart and I think that their mission would warm anyone's heart.  Taken from their website, Noonday Collection...

  • Providing jobs that create a pathway out of poverty for families. A stable income means a family is less likely to abandon their child.
  • Help families raise money for their own adoptions. We give 10% of trunk show sales directly to the adoptive family when they host a trunk show.
  • Aside from donating 10% towards qualified adoptive families, Noonday Collection also gives towards orphan care and prevention. Watch the video to see one of our beneficiaries.
Doesn't hearing that just make you want to shop with them? 

Melissa offered to send me the Ancient Ways necklace and while I loved what I saw online, I loved it even more when it came in the mail.  


This necklace is right up my alley.  It is so versatile and the quality is outstanding.  Jimmy even took notice the first time I wore it, "Whoa!  Cool necklace!  Is it new?  I really like that!".  I couldn't wait to tell him all about Noonday and even he agreed that the mission behind the brand was so unique.  Melissa also sent me a catalog with my necklace and I was blown away by so many of the pieces, especially this scarf.

Are you sold yet? 

Well maybe something to sweeten the deal.  How bout a giveaway?  Yep, Melissa has so graciously offered one Life After I "Dew" reader their very own Ancient Ways necklace!  So go enter, now!  While your at it shop around Noonday and buy something you can really feel good about!  Christmas gifts, anyone?


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November 8, 2012

I Want to be THAT Mom

Have you seen this commercial yet?


Did your skin crawl like mine did?

OMG I literally died a little when I saw this.  I instantly felt rage for the father in this commercial.  Windows down+water+soap= nightmare.  Could you imagine how long it probably took for that car to dry out?  I mean did they sit on towels for days?  Did water get in the radio?  What about the heat/ac vents?  Ahhh!

And yet do you see how the father reacts?  He shakes his head, disappointed, frustrated I'm sure but then he grabs a sponge and "helps".  He helps.  

I want to be that parent, that mom.  I want to stop caring about messes and getting dirty and jump in the action.  I want to say "Who cares?  Let's do this!".  

The other day I saw this idea on Pinterest and thought I would put my own spin on it.  So I set out mini bowls, filled them with rice and proceeded to color them.  Kendall loved that part and couldn't wait to get her little hands on those little bowls.  I let her dump all of the bowls into one big bowl and then we mixed, mixed, mixed.  She LOVED it.  We then hid her Dora and princess figurines and I had a list {in my head} of all the pieces she needed to find.
Rice was flying everywhere, all over the counters, on the floor, in the rug, everywhere.  I felt myself getting anxious.  I put down a towel but that didn't matter because she picked up the towel and flung the rice that was on it on the floor.  I panicked.  I felt hot.  I wanted to immediately grab the vacuum and clean it all up.  I threatened to take it away if she threw the rice out one more time.  

And then I thought about that commercial.  I thought about that commercial and I calmed down.  It was just she and I that night, we were already in our pjs, no one was coming over, we had nothing else to do, so who cares?  She was having so much fun, she thought the rice was sprinkles and kept saying it smelled like "toot toots" {toddlers are weird}.  Since that day this has become one of her favorite indoor activities.  

I learned something that night, from that Subaru commercial.  Kids are only kids once.  There is always time to clean up and there will always be another mess.  Homes aren't meant to be spic and span they are meant to be lived in, enjoyed.  So that's what I'm trying to do, enjoy this time.

Truth be told I felt more at ease that day and ever since.  Letting things slide, letting the mess sit until after bedtime, letting my kid be a kid has done wonders for my attitude.  I feel less stress and I could tell Kendall was happier.  I can't say I blame her.  Life is so much more enjoyable when you don't have a nagging mom.  

Guess I better trade in the ole Chevy for a Subaru now.

November 7, 2012

SO WHAT! Wednesday

So What Wednesday
This week I'm saying SO WHAT if...
  • I didn't post yesterday.  I just wasn't feeling it and I'd rather not post anything at all than post junk.
  • I've diagnosed myself {with the help of WebMd} with acute bronchitis.  
  • I'm not going to the dr.  Dr.WebMd basically says take over the counter and let it run it's course, so that's what I'll do.
  • I take pictures for IG after my workouts.  I know when others do it it helps motivate me so I can only hope that I'm doing the same for others.
  • I hate ordering from Target.  Their shipping takes FOR-ever.
  • I gave KP one of her Christmas gifts out of desperation yesterday.
  • I added sprinkles to Kendall's cinnamon roll.  As if she needed MORE sugar.
  • Kendall has wore her "Halloween dress" for the past two days.
  • I'm letting my husband pick out his own birthday present.  As in I haven't bought it yet and his birthday was yesterday.
  • I'm a little obsessed with my ombre hair.
  • I have blinds that don't fit on Kendall's window.  I needed the extra darkening thanks to my enemy DST.  I'll get ones that fit soon.
  • I can't stand messages in my spam folder.  I delete them immediately.


November 5, 2012

Outfit Additions

I'm usually very accessories challenged.  I tend to skimp out on jewelry, hair things, belts, scarves and what not because 1. I am cheap and would rather just buy a top instead of two necklaces and/or 2. I hate to spend money on pieces that are either going to break or go out of style in two months.  I usually prefer my accessories to be classic, simple, timeless that way they go with a lot and I can wear them for a long time to come.

When Outfit Additions contacted me to review one of their newest pieces I was sold! I was totally not expecting to fall in love with everything on their site though!  And their prices are great, totally budget friendly, so you don't have to feel bad buying each and everything you love.

Now I'm not one for the bib necklace trend, it's just not me.  It's too much, it seems very spider-y, I can see it getting broken VERY easily by The Toddler.  I know I'm in the minority here, it's fine.  But, Outfit Additions has some great, simple, non-cluttery {not a word, I know} bib style necklaces that I adore.

Case & point, the Fluorescent Pink Drop Bib Necklace- this is a bib necklace I can do.

Ain't she a beaut?  I love it.  I love how versatile it is too because it's totally something I can wear to dress up a casual outfit like colored jeans and my favorite chambray top OR I can wear it with a little black dress for a night out or even to a wedding.

And if you like this baby today is your lucky day!  From now until Friday {11/9} Outfit Additions is offering all Life After I "Dew" readers a 25% discount on all orders over $25 {code DEW}. Want to see what's on my wishlist?

Necklaces
Earrings
Bracelets
So, what are you waiting for?  Stop on over to Outfit Additions and getcha some of these pretties!  I promise you'll be glad you did!

November 1, 2012

Challenge Your Closet- Week 6

Life After I Today is all about Pinterest.  I think one of my biggest boards is my 'My Style' board.  It has come in really handy when I have somewhere to go and I want to look cute but I'm dying in the creativity department and I'm too cheap to go buy something new.  I simply flip through some of my favorite looks and decide what I can recreate with my own pieces from my own closet.  Sometimes it's a big fat fail and other times its a total home-run.  The fun thing about it is you don't have to have the EXACT items to make it work.  Sometimes the fun of it is putting your own spin on something that's inspired you.  Today I'd like to share some of my home-runs {at least in my book} in recreating Pinterest outfits.

Outfit #1

Chambray top- H&M
White shorts- Old Navy
Necklace- Shabby Apple
Bag- Aldo
Sunglasses- Juicy Couture

I shared this outfit earlier in the summer but it was one of my favorite recreations. There's just something about a chambray top against crisp white that I just love.  Add in some gold accessories and you had me at hello.  This outfit is the epitome of summer and I love everything about it.  I wore this on a girls night out {to see Magic Mike} and I felt stylish but I was still comfortable.  I felt hot but I still felt like I could wear this to the park with Kendall too.  Definite win in my book!  Side note: I miss my tan!

Outfit #2

Top- Target
Belt- JCrew
Shorts- Old Navy
Sandals- Target
Bag- Aldo

I had this outfit pinned for quite some time but a collared shirt isn't really my thing {minus the chambray top, of course} so I had trouble recreating it.  But then I went through an old box of clothes and found this black top and figured what the heck!  I wore this to the Memorial Golf Tournament in the spring and minus it being COLD and rainy I felt like it fit the occasion pretty well.  Jimmy may have told me that I looked like a golfer's wife {minus the stash of mini rum bottles that were hiding in my bag}.  I do think this would have been cuter with a different length short though, or maybe it's just because I'm short, because I don't dig the Bermuda length.

Outfit #3

Sweater- NY&Co
Tee- Old Navy
Scarf- Grace Adele
Jeans- Old Navy
Flats- Old Navy

I wore this outfit to get my hair done this week.  I just recently pinned this outfit and I couldn't wait to recreate it because I knew I had all of the pieces.  I had the nude flats but for some reason I just couldn't get on board with them, the black seemed to make much more sense.  I loved this look even if I don't love myself in the color mustard so much.  I don't usually roll my jeans at the cuff but since the picture showed it I thought I'd give it a chance and I really liked the way it looked!  YAY for trying new things!  By the way, LOVE that scarf!  Seriously so versatile and adds such a fun element to any outfit.

Outfit #4

Sweater- Old Navy
Scarf- H&M
Jeans- Old Navy
Flats- Target

Boy this one is from the archives!  I recreated this outfit last winter but I still love it enough to share {and wear} again.  This outfit was/is so comfy.  I love nothing more than a sweater jacket in the cold months, don't you?  I would pair this with boots for when it's colder or raining/snowing {ew snow} outside.  Actually I kind of want to go put this on NOW.  Thank God for Statigram for keeping all my old Instagram pics for me because I would have forgotten all about this look otherwise.

So, what do you think?  Have you successfully recreated any Pinterest looks?  I'd love to hear from you, do you have any looks that you'd like to see me recreate?  Leave a comment with the link and I'll do my best in coming weeks!